The Chibok girls were all over the news. Their names were not.

They had been reduced to a number.

When a woman's story goes missing, she becomes a number.

So Lola Omolola built a room where women could tell their own stories.

They came. From everywhere. They said what was happening in their lives. In their own words. To other women who knew.

It got huge.
More than 2 million women. 100+ countries.
Female IN came first. Woman with Her Own Money came after; nearly 450,000 women use WHOM to figure out earning, pricing, saving, borrowing, and starting again.
80 cities.
4 continents.
FINConnect. Women showed up in person.
Female IN gathering in Lagos
Lagos
Female IN gathering in Johannesburg
Johannesburg
Female IN gathering in London
London
Female IN gathering in New York
New York
Female IN gathering in Italy
Italy
Female IN gathering in Toronto
Toronto
Female IN gathering in Houston
Houston
Female IN gathering in Port Harcourt
Port Harcourt
Female IN gathering in Abuja
Abuja
Marriage. Money. Sex. Fear. Joy. Shame. Survival.

Some spoke for the first time. Some made different decisions. Some left. Some stayed. Some started over.

It changed decisions.

Women who were raised to see other women as a threat ended up in the same room. Wealthy and struggling. Educated and self-taught. Lagos, London, Chicago, and beyond. They spoke up anyway.

98%
said they are not afraid anymore to speak up in their daily life
99%
said they gained confidence and feel stronger
71%
said they got out of a sensitive situation because of FIN
Archipel & Co. independent study. 2,862 women surveyed across multiple countries, 2019.
The usual community rules
Be respectful
No hate speech
No spam
Be kind to each other
No self-promotion
Keep it positive
No bullying
Respect privacy
Be respectful
No hate speech
No spam
Be kind to each other
No self-promotion
Keep it positive
No bullying
Respect privacy
No personal attacks
Stay on topic
No discrimination
Report violations
Use your real name
Be constructive
No trolling
Admin's word is final
No personal attacks
Stay on topic
No discrimination
Report violations
Use your real name
Be constructive
No trolling
Admin's word is final

Women are taught that they are here to serve everybody else. The ones who try to speak get judged, exposed, preached at, or corrected.

We saw each one happen. So we built our own.

Do Not Judge any FINster who tells her story
Do Not Share any content from FIN
No preaching. Do not turn another woman's story into a lesson.
No Unsolicited Advice. It is always self-serving.
Be Kind or Waka Pass. If nothing uplifting to say.
Story does not happen unless spine exists.
See Story & Spine

"One of the most powerful communities Facebook has ever seen."

Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook
CNN. BBC. The Guardian. NPR. Newsweek.
Obama Foundation Summit. Skoll World Forum. Facebook Communities Summit. F8.
Founded by Lola Omolola. Chicago, September 11, 2015.
Female IN was not built to go viral. It was built so women could speak in their own words, with women who had lived it too, and stop disappearing in plain sight. Female IN and Woman with Her Own Money (WHOM) now span 100+ countries.
See the full record
Women spoke for themselves.
"I have become a woman of my self."
Saliman Abidemi
"FIN told me I AM UNBEATABLE."
Blessing Bulus Pam
"A place you can share your story and no one will judge you."
Adeyemo Taiwo Mosunbola
"A place where you can confidently pour out your dirty secret."
Olabisi Funke Koyejo
"A community which I can vouch for anytime anyday."
Olanrewaju Tolulope Loveth
"A beautiful support community where the African woman can share her struggles without being judged."
Anuoluwapo Aderanti

The method still works. The stories are still here. The pattern is still here.

Telling our stories was only the beginning.

FIN said
Tell it.
The FIN Room says
Now what are you going to do with what you know?

Now we're ready for the right partners.

Protect the record. Fund The FIN Room. Bring our method to your organization.

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A woman tells the truth. Another woman recognizes it. Something changes. That is how silence breaks.
See Story & Spine See the evidence Work with us